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We all have problems and those problems make us feel bad.
So to make the bad feeling go away, we have to channel all our efforts into solving our problems.
At least that’s what we think.
The reality, however, is a different one.
If focusing on your problems and trying to tackle them head-on with all the effort you can muster works, why do you still have so many problems?
If the common way of solving problems is so effective why are our lives a string of problems, one seamlessly flowing into the next one like abacus beads?
Part of the issue is that we consciously or subconsciously believe that life is effort and struggle, that nothing comes without hard work, and that putting your nose to the grindstone is the only way things can change.
I think that’s a really sad and depressing approach to life and I’m going to make a case for another approach.
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