Nowadays it is very dangerous because anyone has a mobile phone with a camera and can take pictures of naked children without anyone noticing and post those photos on the Internet on child pornography sites. They should be put in swimsuits and not changed on the beach exposing them naked in front of everyone according to adults who also should not be exposed. Furthermore, many children may feel uncomfortable and there is no need to expose them.
I am talking about completely naked boys and girls on the beaches that has nothing to do with a woman wearing a miniskirt or any other piece of clothing... Getting back to the point, I think it's better to have them dressed at all times in public and when they are older, they can do what they want, and if they want to get naked, there are nudist beaches for that, but when they are older, they know what they are doing and what they want, and if they do it, it will be their choice, not their parents' for them. If no one gets naked in public at nudist beaches, not even to change, I don't understand why it is done with children, and the issue is that nowadays it is very easy to take photos of anyone without anyone noticing, and unfortunately, cases of child pornography are abundant; the best thing is that they are always dressed just like their fathers and mothers.
If children want to be naked, I think it's very good to let them walk around like that at home but not in public because, as I have already said, they are exposed to child pornography and as innocent children they do not deserve to appear on those disgusting pornography pages to feed the morbid curiosity of sick pedophiles. It is better to protect that innocence.
In response to nelda_7233257
If children want to be naked, I think it's very good to let them walk around like that at home but not in public because, as I have already said, they are exposed to child pornography and as innocent children they do not deserve to appear on those disgusting pornography pages to feed the morbid curiosity of sick pedophiles. It is better to protect that innocence.
Even not only because of pornography but because no sick person should look down on our innocent children. They can be just as happy being naked in the privacy of their home if they wish and thus do not expose themselves. I do not understand the need to expose naked children in public and I will never understand it.
In response to nelda_7233257
Even not only because of pornography but because no sick person should look down on our innocent children. They can be just as happy being naked in the privacy of their home if they wish and thus do not expose themselves. I do not understand the need to expose children naked in public and I will never understand it.
Additionally, there are also boys and girls who from a young age feel shy and their parents do not respect them, they prefer to expose them and make them feel uncomfortable.
It's not the same a miniskirt than a naked person, regardless of age, according to you, if you don't undress in front of other people, you don't have to undress your children, it seems to me a lack of respect towards children who cannot decide for themselves to expose them in that way, but everyone has their own actions and consequences.
In response to nelda_7233257
It's not the same a miniskirt than a naked person, regardless of age. According to you, if you don't undress in front of other people, you shouldn't undress your children. It seems to me a lack of respect towards children who cannot decide for themselves to expose them in that way, but everyone has their own actions and consequences.
I also do not intend to make anyone feel like a bad mother for doing that, it is not my intention to offend, and parents do not do it with bad intentions, the problem is the bad people who take advantage of those things.
If you go topless it's your decision, but imagine a girl who feels embarrassed about it and is forced... At least you know that forcing is not right, but I believe it's always better to dress them since they don't have the use of reason yet and can't decide for themselves, and when they grow up and know what they're doing, they can decide. Regarding earrings and baptism, at least no depraved person would take advantage of those situations to harm their innocence by exposing them in nudity, and regardless of baptism, when they grow up they decide what to believe and they are not exposed to anything bad by baptizing them, it's as simple as giving them a bath, no religion is being imposed on them if when they grow up and decide not to follow Catholicism (not doing communion or confirmation or going to church, etc.) they are respected. Even if they are enrolled in a religious school, they can change schools if they wish. None of this has to do with exposing children naked on a silver platter to everyone with the evil that exists in this world. If they are baptized when they are older, they can decide not to be Catholics, but if as children they are exposed naked in public and anyone takes a photo and puts it on social media or keeps it, then the damage is done. One thing has nothing to do with the other at all.
If you see them but they can do it without you noticing, and even if it is not the case with your children, regarding what you have said, it is not about fear but rather about being careful.
In response to nelda_7233257
I also do not intend to make anyone feel like a bad mother for doing that, it is not my intention to offend, and parents do not do it with bad intentions, the problem is the bad people who take advantage of those things.
I think you should respect everyone's decisions, it seems like you are not imposing things and isms don't appeal to me.
I have always thought that the kids who were naked on the beach were because they would do it on themselves since there was no need to change their diaper.
I think the topic is being exaggerated a bit, the idea of exposing your children naked on a silver platter seems to me to be a somewhat twisted mentality, just like those who say that breastfeeding a child in public is exhibitionism, there is nothing more natural than nudity, by that rule of thumb that there are depraved people on the beaches we should all go covered up to the eyebrows.....or better yet, not go at all just in case. I think having a child in a diaper....wrapped in plastic on the beach with the heat and humidity ends up making the baby's skin a mess.....I think having the baby naked is because it is more practical and less bothersome....because the diaper must be uncomfortable....and not because of wanting to expose naked children in public.
Alright!!! I am super jealous about these things, I think it's very wrong not to teach them modesty from a young age.. I have a two-year-old baby and every time we go to the beach and I need to change him, I look for a changing room or a bathroom.. this world is full of very damaged people and we are here to protect our children every second in every way we think possible.
In response to nike"_2915037
I think the topic is being exaggerated a bit, that of exposing your children naked on a silver platter seems to me to be a somewhat twisted mentality, just like those who say that breastfeeding a child in public is exhibitionism, there is nothing more natural than nudity, by that rule of thumb that there are depraved people on the beaches we should all go covered up to the eyebrows.....or better yet, not go at all just in case. I think having a child in a diaper....which they carry wrapped in plastic on the beach with the heat and humidity ends up making the baby's skin a mess.....I think having the baby naked is because it is more practical and less bothersome....because the diaper must be uncomfortable....and not because of wanting to expose naked children in public.
to teach them modesty from a young age... that's what the diaper is for, that's why there are little swimsuits or special diapers for the sea...
In response to nike"_2915037
I think the topic is being exaggerated a bit, the idea of exposing your children naked on a silver platter seems to me to be a somewhat twisted mentality, just like those who say that breastfeeding a child in public is exhibitionism, there is nothing more natural than nudity, by that rule of thumb that there are depraved people on the beaches we should all go covered up to our eyebrows.....or better yet, not go at all just in case. I think having a child in a diaper....wrapped in plastic on the beach with the heat and humidity ends up making the baby's skin a mess.....I think having the baby naked is because it is more practical and less bothersome....because the diaper must be uncomfortable....and not because of wanting to exhibit naked children in public.
There are special swim diapers that are specifically for the pool or the beach and you can wear them with any swimsuit.
I agree that reaching these limits is very sad, but I don't think putting them in swimsuits is "bad parenting". It's also wrong to steal and break into other people's houses, and as children, we teach them to always close the front door (and most of us even have a security door to prevent thefts).
The truth is, I prefer to take my children in swimsuits than to find a photo of them in a page of perverts in a few years.
The "dirt" and the crime, from my point of view, is in the eyes of the beholder... I believe that a pedophile can even be aroused by a picture of a dressed child. I hope not to reach the point of having to "hide" children, because it would mean altering our way of life... but let's say that putting them in a swimsuit, for me, falls more into normality, it can be seen as a "lesser evil".
¿y por qué los niñ@s y no los mayores? Entonces que se despeloten todos los adultos también xD
In response to malle"_9774779
The "dirt" and the crime, from my point of view, is in the eyes of the beholder... I believe that a pedophile can even get excited by a picture of a dressed child. I hope not to reach the point of having to "hide" children, because it would mean altering our way of life... but let's say that putting them in a swimsuit, for me, falls more into normality, it can be seen as a "lesser evil".
In any case, a pedophile will always get much more excited seeing a child naked than with clothes, and the pages of child pornography are filled with photographs of naked children precisely.
In response to nelda_7233257
¿y por qué los niñ@s y no los mayores? Entonces que se despeloten todos los adultos también xD
I mean everyone walking around naked everywhere, that there should be no clothes 😜 But it shouldn't be like that, children deserve to have the same privacy as adults.
In response to nelda_7233257
I mean everyone walking around naked everywhere, that there should be no clothes 😜 But it shouldn't be like that, children deserve to have the same privacy as adults.
But as long as it is not like this *
In response to nelda_7233257
Nowadays it is very dangerous because anyone has a mobile phone with a camera and can take pictures of naked children without anyone noticing and post those photos on the Internet on child pornography sites. They should be put in swimsuits and not changed on the beach exposing them naked in front of everyone according to adults who also do not expose themselves. Furthermore, many children may feel uncomfortable and there is no need to expose them.
I thought the same in all the beaches and pools of any city, you always see children in
In response to nelda_7233257
Nowadays it is very dangerous because anyone has a mobile phone with a camera and can take pictures of naked children without anyone noticing and post those photos on the Internet on child pornography sites. They should be put in swimsuits and not changed on the beach exposing them naked in front of everyone according to adults who also do not expose themselves. Furthermore, many children may feel uncomfortable and there is no need to expose them.
I would say it is a lack of knowledge about human behaviors. Keep in mind that those parents were not raised with the internet and so many media as our generation, we all know the deep web and other crap that exists on the internet, which is why it doesn't occur to us, I wouldn't do something like that knowing the type of people that are out there.
The issue of the rate of violations has to do with the security of a country and not with what you say, nothing to do with it.
In response to nelda_7233257
The issue of the rate of violations has to do with the security of a country and not with what you say, nothing to do with it.
In Spain, there are not as many rapes; however, it is one of the countries with the most child pornography.
Furthermore, for example in Canada, there is a culture of modesty (just like in the United States) and yet the rate of rapes is low. As I said, the rate of rapes tends to be similar to that of other crimes in a country and reflects the level of security that exists in that country, which has nothing to do with the modesty of its culture; that is absurd. In Latin America and Eastern countries, the rate of rapes and crime in general is higher, and it is not due to modesty in those countries but rather a lack of police security, so stop making unfounded judgments @diegot
In response to nelda_7233257
Furthermore, for example in Canada, there is a culture of modesty (just like in the United States) and yet the rate of rapes is low. As I said, the rate of rapes tends to be similar to that of other crimes in a country and reflects the level of security that exists in that country, which has nothing to do with the modesty of its culture; that is absurd. In Latin America and Eastern countries, the rate of rapes and crime in general is higher, and it is not due to modesty in those countries but rather due to a lack of police security, so stop making unfounded judgments @diegot
Furthermore, in Africa where many boys and girls walk naked due to poverty is where there are the most rapes precisely because of the lack of security and resources.
In summary, where there are fewer violations is in developed countries due to greater security in them, but it is also where there is more child pornography, so be careful with that.
In response to nelda_7233257
In Spain, there are not as many rapes; however, it is one of the countries with the most child pornography.
In Spain, there are many rapes and also many imitators of the pack. The easy access of children and adolescents to porn favors these situations that already occur among minors who rape another minor.
In response to nelda_7233257
Furthermore, for example in Canada, there is a culture of modesty (just like in the United States) and yet the rate of rapes is low. As I said, the rate of rapes tends to be similar to that of other crimes in a country and reflects the level of security that exists in that country, which has nothing to do with the modesty of its culture; that is absurd. In Latin America and Eastern countries, the rate of rapes and crime in general is higher, and it is not due to modesty in those countries but rather due to a lack of police security, so stop making unfounded judgments @diegot
In the US, there is a violation every five minutes. It is brutal.
In response to nelda_7233257
Furthermore, in Africa where many boys and girls walk naked due to poverty is where there are the most rapes precisely because of the lack of security and resources.
In Africa, superstitions favor rapes to cure AIDS, for example. I believe that rapes are brutal in the world in general.
In response to nelda_7233257
In summary, where there are fewer violations is in developed countries due to greater security in them, but it is also where there is more child pornography, so be careful with that.
Child pornography is also global and widely consumed.
In response to craig"_2963919
In Spain there is a lot of child pornography of any kind that's why I say it's dangerous to expose naked children due to the dangers they are exposed to.
In response to craig"_2963919
In the US, there is a violation every five minutes. It is brutal.
But in Canada, the culture is not the same, and it's because Canada is a country with the same safety as Europeans. That's why I say that the number of rapes and all kinds of crimes depend on how safe a country is, not on the modesty that exists or not in its culture.
In response to craig"_2963919
Child pornography is also global and widely consumed.
In response to nelda_7233257
In summary, where there are fewer violations is in developed countries due to greater security in them, but it is also where there is more child pornography, so be careful with that.
The United States is the most developed and others in Latin America could be said to be as well. But well, I was referring to the Europeans with this comment. In any case, it is true that child pornography is a global problem, but much material from those networks comes from Europe.
It is a complex issue regarding child pornography, but what is clear is that there are many photos of naked children in child pornography networks, which is why to prevent our children from appearing in that crap, the best thing is not to expose them. Don't look for three legs on the cat trying to contradict what is obvious.
Exposing a minor naked in a public place thinking that everyone is a good person and that no one will look at them with bad eyes or take advantage of the situation is something like crossing a crosswalk without looking thinking that no one is going to run you over anyway.
In response to nelda_7233257
Furthermore, for example in Canada, there is a culture of modesty (just like in the United States) and yet the rate of rapes is low. As I said, the rate of rapes tends to be similar to that of other crimes in a country and reflects the level of security that exists in that country, which has nothing to do with the modesty of its culture; that is absurd. In Latin America and Eastern countries, the rate of rapes and crime in general is higher, and it is not due to modesty in those countries but rather due to a lack of police security, so stop making unfounded judgments @diegot
Moreover, in many countries, a woman being raped is seen as something normal. It's a matter of culture, more than how nudity is accepted.
I wouldn't like my son's photo to be on someone's phone and used for sexual arousal, what do you want me to say... neither naked nor dressed nor with a feather headdress... not even if it's a toe.
In response to malle"_9774779
I wouldn't like my son's photo to be on someone's phone and used for sexual arousal, what do you want me to say... neither naked nor dressed nor with a feather headdress... not even if it's a toe.
It's not the same to have a dressed person as a naked one; naked people always generate more curiosity, so stop making unfounded ironies.
In response to nelda_7233257
It's not the same a person dressed than naked, the naked always generate more morbid curiosity, so stop saying unfounded ironies.
Oh no.....it can generate more morbid curiosity what is not seen.
According to the elders, they do not undress in public to avoid generating morbid curiosity, nor do they undress small children to prevent it in pedophiles. Do not look for unfounded excuses to expose children; they can walk freely without clothes at home, but in public, there is no need; no one has to see the things that are private to their children.
I think it's great that you give your opinion on the topic, but you act with your children as you want regarding the topic, and those who think they shouldn't cover them up at the beach, shouldn't do it. I don't think that by dressing them, they are protected and want more and are better mothers, there are simply different points of view and everyone chooses their way of living with nudity. Just like those who undress their children at beaches, (because they believe it's something natural and that the concept of nakedness-morbidity doesn't apply to children, or that they are nudists, or for any thought of the parents, or because they don't care, or out of habit, etc.) they don't have the right to say that those who dress them are doing it wrong, I don't think you should make those judgments emphasizing that what is correct is only what you think.